Hi everyone. Jeff I found some nice cheap stuff listed on Craigslist. I bought a white headboad and frame for a full sized bed (I refuse to sleep on our marriage bed where we have ML, I am moving that bed out) and a matching desk for the bedroom.
Well I am going to talk to my L tomorrow about what to do if he doesn't move out Wednesday. I should have a copy of the contract he signed that declared he had 15 days to move out and would have to be out by July 16. And if he tries to come into the house on the 17th or later, I will call the police and show them the paper and they will tell him he has to leave or arrest him. At least I sure hope that is how it works.
I know that the fact that we are divorced hasn't sunk in at all for him. The fact that he now has 6 days to leave isn't reality to him at all. He has been a big cake eater this whole time, so why quit now?
I just got off the phone with one of my best friends. She lives in Boston, sadly. She had some choice words about my H and then he started tellilng me stories that made me laugh. She can always make me laugh. It is wonderful to have friends like that. I just wish my friends lived here in St. Louis and not around the country.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08