mules...thanks for your support. I try not to post 'my sitch' on YOUR thread unless I start to see dangerous parallels. You are VERY fortunate to have Bworl on your thread. Honestly, after almost 2 plus years, he calls it as it is.
Mules...no one here should EVER tell you to divorce. No one on my thread did. I know I can speak for Bill, Phoenix, PDT, et al....that WE WANT YOU TO BE IN THE 5% TO SAVE YOUR M.
HOWEVER:
Our only 'expertise', besides having been thru this and are perhaps a little ahead of you...is...that we are not in your house, so, we can be a little more objective. BUT...BECAUSE WE ARE NOT IN YOUR HOUSE...we cannot hear your W's tone or see the expression on her face or see her tears. YOU DO. This is your M....you ARE a man...and a dad. WE know the responsibility that entails.
As you could see from my thread, I got beaten up pretty badly. Bill can confirm that my sitch sorta turned out to be a filme noire par extraordinaire. Don't get caught with your pants down....don't see babysteps when there are none....DO stay the strong H and dad that you are. DON'T give up until it's time. You will know it. I did...and my story isn't over yet.
Strength and honor. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
