Hey Rob, Thanks for stopping by. I am still following you in piecing but have little to add since my daughter is not yet a teen!!
Luck. Glad W has not dropped any more mini-bombs.
One_Light, So sorry you are here.
Newly divorced sucks. Ask me how I know.
The good news is that for the first months it is uplifting as in 'this is finally over'.
But be prepared b/c after that I fell big time.
Took four months but I am doing better now. Maybe it is the vacation I had with my kids or maybe it is just doing what Dodo says.
What a wonderful post. Just about everything Dodo listed applies to my Ex except for the cheating part (I think).
I still cannot make that list - even 2.5 years into this. But once I do and accept it I will move forward again.
And once I have the list?
I will burn it and move on. Hopefully I will find a new love as Dodo has. I am not ready to date but those women are not going anywhere.
So chin up one_light.
My closing is Strength and Honor. From a movie.
May you have the strength to have the courage to strike out into the unknown fog of fear; and honor, that you will demonstrate integrity and be assertive in your interactions with others to get the well-being you deserve in the fog of uncertainity.