Lost,

You can always vent on here. Just don't do it to your wife, LOL.

I was serious what I said before -- we're here for you. Once I start following someone's sitch, I'm there throughout. You don't have to always follow my advice, but I will give you my advice and my support, based on my experience of having gone thru it at this exact time last summer.

No, you didn't sign up for this, but Pain has come to pay you a visit. You can either RUN from it, or you can steel yourself and deal with it with courage and grace.

My money's on you, and the latter.

Puppy