Thanks for checking on me guys. Feeling a little discouraged.
Ok, here is the update. I intended to go through vacation with the headache. However, the minute we got up to the mountains, the wife started in on me. "Did you bring a raincoat?" No, didn't figure we would need them. "Well, go get some!" I was a little reluctant and drug my feet as we went through the same deal with the Christmas trip that resulted in no sex. However, we showered together 5-6 times resulting in standing quickies as well as a couple of longer sessions in the bedroom. The pattern was still roughly the same as before, no kissing etc, but I am sure this is a habit at this point.
So, all in all, not bad while on the trip. Then we get home. I suggest some nookie. She responds "this is what I was worried about. You would just not be satisfied with what you got." This one still puzzles me some. Did you not have an O(s)? Do you not like that? She doesn't get much from the standing quickies, but I am always the one suggesting we take more time in bed so she gets her share! Besides, shower sex for me is a nice release, but I would much rather take time together to try for that connection in bed.
Anyway, I had an emergency business trip and I am out of town this week.
