Ok Buster, I have one point from your other thread I will post here.
I would be exposing her affair to whatever church she goes to. Affairs thrive in secret and often die quickly when exposed to the light of day..some die more slowly.
If you can get someone from your church to meet with her privately and talk some sense into her do it.
Also. She is REALLY CONFUSED when she suggested your child won't be affected by your divorce...there is TONS of research on this topic PROVING THE OPPOSITE. Divorces torment children well into their adult life. Many seek therapy to attempt to resolve their issues with the divorce.
If you read divorce remedy by michele davis she makes a LOT of good points about how adversely divorce will impact children of any age.
Sorry but if she thinks your child won't be damaged by a divorce she's deluding herself. take her to a marriage counsellor nad have someone in authority talk some sense into her, she won't listen to you on it, but rest assured she's way off the mark there.
