I understand what you are saying. And I've been toying this back and forth. Not only should she get none of me, but I need to do this for me as well. Obviously this weekend proved it because it brought me down afterword.
But how do you juggle this with children? I really don't want to do this together but there are some circumstances (like the 4th of July) where its hard to avoid. Where do you draw the line?
On a side note, I could tell W was a little flustered about our plans this weekend. I'm going over to an old friends house on Friday for dinner....with Abby of course. They have two little boys. Then on Saturday we are going to a b-day party at an old friend I used to work with. W knew and hung out with both friends when Abby was little. I think she's a little bummed she can't participate. This is the old W, but I positive if OM was sitting next to her she wouldn't have cared. Amazing you tell the "two" Ws apart.
M 35 W 28 D 4
Bomb 4/28/08 Found out about PA 05/14/08 Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)
