I think you are misinterpretting that sentence. That is my wife speaking. My wife makes the rules, I have to live by them. However the rules do not apply to me for I am the wife, and I can change those rules whenever I deem necessary because I'm a woman.
Woman can change their minds at the speed of thought. Men pretty much make a decision, weigh the pro's and con's, apply newtons law to it, some astrophysical properties, green slime, pbr blast, and maybe some peanut butter and stick to it.
Well something must be working. Because last night I didn't journal, but I talked to her for ahwhile on the phone. I even sat on her couch for about five minutes, and I did get a hug and kissed her on the lips.
Now today she brings the kids by after work, and the kids do not want to get out. However her and I have a pleasant conversation, and I speak softly to her. I did give her some truth juice though.
I told her that our cousin emailed me like three times asking if it would be ok for him to stay with me for ahwile. I said I'm not going to say no to you, but it isn't going to help my situation. I said wife how can I deal with his wife, his kids, our kids, and us.
She said why does he want to move in with you. I said well she came back home because her lease is up at the end of July. She moved back and is fighting with him like crazy, and telling him to leave. She says she isn't leaving again. I mean he doesn't give me the details, but I told him that he should have never told her that it was an option for him to move in with me. She texted him today and said you better make arrangements with your cousing Phil to move in with him. I said wife, I told him if she is the unhappy one she should leave.
A little truth zinger, and it went well.
We talked some more, and it seemed like she didn't want to leave. She backed out real slow, and then straighted the car, stopped again. Looked at me, laughed because I did something funny. Then she drove away slowly and beeped.
