Originally Posted By: swashy
She has even told me that if my STBX was to turn around (fat chance) that she would make me try -that my kids deserve that. Amazing to me that she is selfless enough to suffer for them but their own mother is not.


Scott,

I do remember you.... I met J at a DB gathering last Summer... She is a really great gal...

That is interesting J said that...... My new W told me three weeks before our wedding if I wanted to go talk to exW to see if there was any possibility for reconciliation, I could freely do so..... She said, "I love you so much. I want you to be happy."

Yeah..... Like I was going to give my exW a chance when my dream girl was right in front of me...... I told her, "My exW had many chances. She had more than 90 chances (days) to change her mind. I even opened the door for her again in July. She made her decision. She freed me to make my decision."

In the end, my new W and J are simply much better women than our exWs.... For me, it was a painful but worthwhile experience....

Take Care,

NMD

Last edited by No_More_Dodo; 07/09/08 11:40 PM.
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