5 yr DBer, "Joint" D now in progress

[RSmiles]

So, just when I think I can cope with my sitch- things start getting nuts again. H informed me today he has no plans for paying his 50% of our joint past due bills and will not agree to 7 months time to refinance- he wants a limitless deadline. H gets irate when I say then the house has to sell- he's determined to keep this house. H is an argumentative person with a temper and chose an L who likes to argue too. Great. H won't get a regular job, nor will he borrow money from his family- he thinks his music business is his only possibility (which does not bring in much $!!) Let me tell you the attitude this guy has is bigger than life. H sees his L tomorrow to talk his ideas over. Insane!*&* Of course, there's no way I'm agreeing to his nonsense, so my L bills may now be going up- great. Everything is in place for me to move in 2.5 weeks- not like I could continue to stay here much longer and I majorly don't want to. H makes snide remarks to me everyday. Then, H's roommate plans to move in Aug 1. I really need to have this temporary order agreed to and signed before I leave - So I'm stressed out about what kind of state I will be leaving in again.