WAW is full steam ahead

[Neilh23]

you're right, it can't do anymore harm, plus it will prevent you from doing anymore damage by talking.

For nothing else, you gotta be strong for your kids. My W is the same way...it's gotta be done NOW. She got super pissed because it took me so long to get to the point where i could sign the sep papers. She said i was still controlling her life. They say so many things when they are scared and hurt, that it doesn't really matter.

Go dark. Don't talk or acknowledge her. ONly if its about the kids. It's hard. I couldn't do it..... but i wish i had. Perhaps i wouldn't be in this place right now. It's the space thing.

BE strong for the kids