Red, if you've seen my thread, I've been solely blamed for the breakdown of my marriage. Did I contribute to the breakdown? Absolutely. Did I do it alone? No way. My h CAN'T admit that he played any part in it. If he did that, he'd have to admit that some of this was his fault, and he's not willing to "come to Jesus" with that right now. It's easier to place the blame on me, look like a victim, and justify his decision with his friends and family.
THAT'S WHAT THEY DO. How can she be rational? Because in her mind, she's made you the bad guy and can justify any decsions that she makes.
Breathe. Take time to unwind. An extra yoga class tonight?
Yes i contributed to the breakdown for sure, but to hold me solely responsible is ridiculous.. it's irritating .. and she continues to try and explain how lousy i am/was to everyone.. it's all about the drama it seems. My W will not admit she had any part in any breakdown.. so i guess i just accept that i am 100% to blame? lol.. geez that's a blast.
I wonder when the house sells and we move, if it will hit her harder.. she blames me for her not being able to have kids.. (there was a tiny window)..
no yoga tonight, tonight i goto a counselling session for one of my BIG problems, class 6 of 8
