Lol. If she accepted that she had some part in it, then it would poke holes in how she is justifying her behavior. And the whole thing might just unravel at the seams.
It's easier to blame someone else than to examine yourself. Looking at your own actions takes conscious energy, time, thought, and can result in negative emotions. No one really wants to pick themselves apart. Some people avoid it more than others though.
It is kind of funny, but i get called the selfish one, who's being selfish now? She asked me a few weeks ago " did i ever embarass you? she answered her own questions with "no".. "did i ever get super drunk at a party" "no" .. geez it's funny because she really thinks she is perfect.. far from it.. i am starting to realize "things i think she wasn't good at" ..
i just keep it to myself, rather than taking her approach and playing the blame game..
