here Goes Part 2

[ms ladybug]

Red, if you've seen my thread, I've been solely blamed for the breakdown of my marriage.
Did I contribute to the breakdown? Absolutely.
Did I do it alone? No way.
My h CAN'T admit that he played any part in it. If he did that, he'd have to admit that some of this was his fault, and he's not willing to "come to Jesus" with that right now.
It's easier to place the blame on me, look like a victim, and justify his decision with his friends and family.

THAT'S WHAT THEY DO.
How can she be rational? Because in her mind, she's made you the bad guy and can justify any decsions that she makes.

Breathe. Take time to unwind. An extra yoga class tonight?