Ask her to tick a choice of 2 (or 3 ?) things...for you to collect later whilst she's out...either
- what she would liek for dinner (if yuo are home first and getting it ready for her) - what she would like for pudding (if she is getting dinner ready, but you would pick up dinner on the way home) OR - what she would like cleaned/tidied/done by the time she is in from work, like the TV room, or kitchen, or garage, or grass mowed...this would fit her cleanliness thing and prove you are listening to her, but might not suit you, too subservient?? - or, which Movie she'd like you to rent..
Something you can do whilst shes out and have it ready for when shes back (dont know your schedule!)
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread