i think that is yet another way she will learn her own lessons- she will get this from more places than just you DB'ing ..thats what happned with my H- work related stuff- brought up a lot of sh*t for him and now that I am DB'ing he saw that his work stuff was about him and his actions and he had to figure that out on his own. so maybe your W will see that her "friend" isnt the person she thought and it will proabably bring up a lot for her...this is where you get to be strong, listen and validate! is: "that must be hard"..."sounds like you have found ways to talk to her about it"..."oh i feel for ya"...wtc...life lessons are SO MUCH FUN (he he he)!
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..thats what happned with my H- work related stuff- brought up a lot of sh*t for him and now that I am DB'ing he saw that his work stuff was about him and his actions and he had to figure that out on his own. so maybe your W will see that her "friend" isnt the person she thought and it will proabably bring up a lot for her...this is where you get to be strong, listen and validate! is: "that must be hard"..."sounds like you have found ways to talk to her about it"..."oh i feel for ya"...wtc...life lessons are SO MUCH FUN (he he he)!