the time you spend with your kids is pricelss- no matter what you do becuase you are their rock. im sure that its fun to do all those things- but they also reply upon you. you both play a huge role in their lives and that will not change.
yes- DETACH- you are very atteched right now to what he does and says..i knowhow hard it is not to get attached but just LET IT GO..you need to heal YOU right now- not him.
take care
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