here Goes Part 2

[MichelleLT]

Lol. If she accepted that she had some part in it, then it would poke holes in how she is justifying her behavior. And the whole thing might just unravel at the seams.

It's easier to blame someone else than to examine yourself. Looking at your own actions takes conscious energy, time, thought, and can result in negative emotions. No one really wants to pick themselves apart. Some people avoid it more than others though.