We're done. H is waaay gone, cannot come back. I've accepted that we are getting divorced, but am still very angry and in a lot of pain. I just can't understand how he could do this to his kids and to me.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09