Well, as they are acting purely on emotion/impulse 99% of the time, I guess someone has to be the rational one lol!
Long story short, W got into my emails and found a few emails i had sent to few "chosen" friends. She had the balls to respond in her name to one of them, she even copied me .. after reading that i have decided I am done. I need to get into my own space, this was a big eye opener.. but i am done.. i will continue to pursue my positive changes.. for me of course.. i would post the email, but i don't think it's appropriate, plus it's long winded. Basically i am blamed for the whole breakdown of the marriage, i guess my wife is perfect..
I think we just need to get that house sold, in this horrible market, and i will chalk it up to a lesson learnt. Life is too short, i want to have kids(my wife even blames me for the fact that she likely wont have kids now)..
Thoughts? Am i being dumb? I don't think I am..I am just done..