He called last night with the whole "I love you. I don't want a divorce" thing. I swear, he's got to have mutiple personalities, because in the same sentance he'll ask if I've chosen an attorney yet.
He dropped the 50% custody thing on me last night too. HOW can I give him 50% custody when he's NOT ONCE made an effort to take the kids since he's been gone. He's NEVER once called to see if he can take the kids for the evening, or pick them up early from day care. They are in day care ALL DAY when he has 4 days off in a row, and NOT ONCE has he suggested that he take them. NOW he wants them 50%?? My son has NEVER been away from me overnight! Oh, and he wants to start this Sunday. He wants the kids Sun thru Wed!! I lost it! I was crying. I told him he CANNOT have them overnight. I can't be without my kids like that!! They'd have to sleep on the couch at his parents house where he's living. I CAN'T DO THIS!!


Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."