Stripping for your man can be something a woman really enjoys. Beyond the fun the man has in this, the woman can really touch into a whole new feeling inside of herself by stripping. Usually a woman really needs her man to ask her to do this for him in order for her to feel the "permission" she needs to get in touch with this part of herself. But it will be such an erotic experience for HER if her man can gently help her get into it.
Usually, a woman who has never done something like this for her man will need a "special reason". So - if you typically get special birthday sex, or even if you don't, try asking for her to strip for you for your birthday.
There are other things he needs to do to help her feel sexy enough to pull this off.
Two suggestions:
1. Buy her pole dancing lessons. These are going on all over the place right now. If you can't find her some IRL lessons, buy the Carmen Electra DVD about stripping for your man.
2. Buy her one or more "special" outfits that specifically suit your particular likes. If you dig the school girl outfits, get that. If you dig leathers and chains, get that. Make that part about you. Dont buy something you think SHE will want to wear, make it something you would truly want to see on a stripper.
So you ask far in advance of your birthday for the special birthday present, to give her time to take the pole dancing lessons or watch the DVD, and to give you time to pick up the outfits. In my town, there are several porn shops that are also stripper clothing stores. These are the best places to go. Be aware that these clothes cost a LOT! But you see, spending money on her being sexy for you is part of how she will get the nerve up to be able to strip for you. Also make sure you buy for her or she owns a beautiful light silk robe or similar, as she can't just strut out in her strip clothes straight out of the gate.
When the birthday (or strip day) comes, make an area specifically for it. You can buy or rent a pole for cheap, but you don't really need it. What you need is an atmosphere. Keep it somewhat darkly lit. Get her half-way drunk before beginning, but you should stay sharp. Tell her the rules of a real strip club if she doesn't know them already: she can touch you but you can't touch her. Stick by this rule. NOT touching her but only appreciating her with your eyes is part of what is going to turn her on doing this. It will give her a rush of power.
Get at LEAST 3 full song dances out of her and tell her that in your request so she won't try to stop after the first one. She won't get fully into it on the first song.
After the strip show is over, make a plan for yourself to where you dont expect sex from it, but you are available and it is possible to have sex if she wants to (ie: kids at grandma's house, etc). Usually she will jump your bones. But if she seems to be more interested in talking about it afterward than having sex, let her talk. Tell her what you liked about it. Be specific and tell her naugthy things about how her body looked at certain points. Also let her talk about how it felt. Ask her "did you like having so much sexual power?" This question may make her flounder a bit as she may not realize it was power she was feeling.
Don't expect her to start stripping for you nightly, but in some cases, women really dig this and do start doing it voluntarily.
DO expect to get some great sex out of it, even if it doesn't happen that night. The thought of it will roll around in her head and drive her crazy for a few days and eventually she's gonna jump ya.
Your mileage may vary of course, and I expect some men may just "know" that their wives would never do this...but I bet some men who think that would be very surprised that they might be wrong.
Ask me questions if you want more clarification.
And if you DO get a strip show from your wife, come back and tell us how it went! (Well not details of course...LOL!)
