He may/may not be lying to her again and tell her how you are the crazy one who wont' let go of him even as he's told you it's over (she will believe this for she wants him). He can be saying all sorts of things, so beware if you talk to ow again, if she needs T then she can get an IC.
I think cat has a very good point. Your H may well be demonising you and if so you are playing right into his hands by calling OW …
My H has actually demonised me to OW and then ‘set me up’ to prove his point. They can be very clever.
Time for a well earned 180 I think.
Nutty.
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.