Jeff. Maybe you don't have to ask her verbally. Maybe just use eye contact, a soft touch, a gently hug, a light kiss and go from there.

I got the message and I'm backing off. I won't make any secret of wanting him (not sure I could keep it a secret at this point) but I will hold off on initiating.

Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.