I also just hit "new posts" and never have paid attention to the actual forums so moving wasn't a huge deal to me.
We had another marriage counseling session yesterday. She's amazing. She really called exactly what happened in our M. When I was talking about how unfair I think this whole thing is with the kids she told us both that I will never be OK with it. Never. But that the anger would lessen. That the pain won't be as sharp.
I really hope it happens soon because I'm so sick of the pain.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09