I also just hit "new posts" and never have paid attention to the actual forums so moving wasn't a huge deal to me.

We had another marriage counseling session yesterday. She's amazing. She really called exactly what happened in our M. When I was talking about how unfair I think this whole thing is with the kids she told us both that I will never be OK with it. Never. But that the anger would lessen. That the pain won't be as sharp.

I really hope it happens soon because I'm so sick of the pain.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.