Baggy, I just didn't want to litter your post with my stories. Mostly because I think your post will be so helpful to many, especially men who want to have some "hope", whereas my post is open for just general discussion and (apparently) wild stories. That was the only reason I made most of my responses on here. I think men who may wander through this part of the board will benefit way more from your post than mine.
But of course what you are saying above it totally true! If he even once accused me of *really* being slutty, and if I even once disrespected him or tried playing games in anyway, the whole thing would be different. I really had to work hard to earn his trust over time. Not because I am untrustworthy (although there is an element of that) but mostly because only time can prove things like that. Consistency in my actions were what proved my faithfulness to him, and consistency in his support, love and encouragement of me were what made me want to be all his 100%.
I'm going to come back shortly with an "idea" post on this thread...for some of you guys...
