Jeff. I am definitely open to that. I did at one point back off and he initiated.
I promised him a night off LOL and will just try standing pat until something happens.
See the thing is that I readily admit that I had my focus away from our marriage much of the time and this is one of my ways of focusing on giving to him. I am offering love without expectations.
I have things I would like to see happen, but I don't expect them any time soon. I am still early in the DB process and just have to be patient.
Good thing you don't mind hijacking. : )
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.