Sandi, I just read this thread and I am glad I did. I am a few days into my separation from my WAW. I am trying to use the advice of everyone to start out on the right foot and not have any setbacks if that is possible.
Thank you for the insight from a WAW. I have been racking my brain on what to do to get her back. I now now that giving her space and time is the best thing to do even though it is hard. THe last thing I want her to feel is preassure. I am going to do my best to follow your advice.
Opinions from you and the other women that are WAW are extremely helpful to me since I can't ask my wife what is going on in her head. I can only hope that there is still a glimmer of hope that she thinks we can work things out. My next step is to find a counselor for me and hope she will join in a some point.
Thanks.
Me - 43 W - 38 Together - 14 yrs Married - 13 yrs S - 10 S - 8 S - 5 Separated - 7/6/08
