I know what you mean about "somewhere in the middle is the truth". That truth will probably show itself in time.......
I don't doubt that her OM or if there really is OM will show himself....I suspect there is.....I only have a 4yr old email, but during our separation / divorce....I made various discoveries. Found out that she had various email addresses....was chating online....hiding various activities she did online - during the divorce, I confronted her about this....her response was....I didn't have a life....didn't have friends....NO I did not cheat on you......I thought you wouldn't understand....
I know I go off on tangents....using post to relive myself of guilt, anger, frustration....negative feeling I suppose.
Thanks one_light and everyone for understanding....!
