Hey Ms, your growing list sounds really good. I'm proud of you recognizing & setting boundaries. Nice Job ! I hope today goes well for you. (no cheese graters, or frogs in blenders).
(I think of affairs before states, I was about to go slap G, lol)
Hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.