I won't just let my W come back in and take me b/c I was her 2nd choice. No, she'll have to do a lot of work on her end in order for even an attempt at reconciliation is ever to be a possibility.
We've been doing a good job of getting closer and in conversation w/ my DB coach this morning, we figured out that she has been flirting w/ me and I need to soften my communications w/ her and try and run w/ it a bit. So, I sent off a flirtatious text when I finished my DB session, but the problem was I received an e-mail from her while I was texting where she called for "emotional space" and wanted to keep all conversations focused on "business."
So, I'm trying to reach my DB coach again to see how to proceed from here b/c I have to respect her wishes, but I need to know the "right way" to do it so I don't end up unravelling everything and moving backward.
Now, I'm going to lay low for a bit and see what happens. I'll keep it business-like and see what else I should do.
Kind of confused as to where to go after W's pull-back, but I'll figure it out soon and let you all know.
