Kelly Jo, I wrote on your new thread, but since you were talking about it here, and the other thread is off the beaten track, I'll copy what I wrote here:
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(((((Kelly Jo)))))
Hmmm, before I write, remember that this comes from the point of view of someone who doesn't have your problem!
This one is really tricky for me. On the one hand, since he bombed you, I could really see how this could feel like pursuing to him. It could be putting pressure on him. On the other hand, it might be helping to maintain a connection with him, and serve to remind him that he is your H, and you are his W.
So, you seem pretty clear that you don't feel bad about it at all. So, from your point of view it seems safe enough. She feeling are you getting from him? I'd be tempted to back off just a bit. Be obviously available, but see if he'll actually initiate. What do you think about that?
