New to this forum and need help..

[tmarie]

HEAR HEAR!! You know we all make these changes by DBing and we often wonder if our S notice.. they do.... or at least mine did... a great thing that I learned is not only did he notice the changes, but he thought they were positive, and they are making a difference in how he feels...that he WANTS me to continue with the changes... he likes them and though they may confuse him now, our relationship will be better because of them... and thus, in return, he wants to fulfill my needs and desires just the same...he is trying just the same as I , only he has other things he need to take into consideration (OW) those feelings do not go away overnight... I as a W need to understand that and give him that space and time to sort that out on his own.. but in the mean time... DB DB DB support support support.. and love him and my family...love myself too..

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