What should I do at this point?

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Hi Cade,

I understand your list of positive memories about your ex. I actually wrote out a laundry list of "things that I love about you" and sent it to her. She responded positively to it, but in the end did nothing to change my sitch.

It’s funny how the nomenclature is almost the same across the board. Actions too. I keep thinking they must issue a handbook. What you are going through seems to be pretty universal. You only remember the good things. She only remembers the bad things. Somewhere in the middle is the truth. That truth will probably show itself in time, but you can’t really count on that.

She is all about her right now. There is nothing wrong with being all about you. I made a list of things that I like about myself and read it from time to time. Silly perhaps, but sometimes it helps to make me feel better or at least a little more optimistic for the future.

Praying. Praying is a good thing. You do not have to carry this burden alone. Plus… we are all here.

Keep it between the ditches brother.