No, I don't think you are crazy. I had a somewhat similar reaction, except my H was not cooperative - told me that he had to be faithful to OW and that unless we were going to have a threesome, he couldn't be with me.
I think so long as your H is receptive, it's a connection between the two of you. But I would recommend toning back on the waking him up in the middle of the night lol. A solid (even if short) night's sleep is a good thing.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2