Wandering Poster - Twenty Six

[Sugar and Spice]

But it's a dry heat!

So is fire. Hot is hot. LOL.

(((Jeff))) I missed the party again.

[Kalni]

Good Morning handsome!

I hope you are well today. I missed again the party but I've been sleeping earlier lately and I can't help it. I am switching back to Europe time again...

Talk to you later,
K

[The Wifey]

(((Jeff)))

I wrote on the mirror with the markers last night. A big red heart and I love you at the bottom with the o in a shape of a red heart. H smiled and said thank you.

Poor guy, though, I haven't been letting him get enough sleep. (She says with a sheepish smile.)

Still says he considers us separated and I just smile and say I understand. Pass the margaritas!!! ARRRGGGG!! Oh dear, he is just so confused.

[The Wifey]

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1510901

I'd love to have your input. I think I'm going crazy or something. I know, its not such a bad problem for the H but I am trying to figure out what is going on.

Tonight I promised we will get some sleep.

[MichelleLT]

Morning Jeff!

Kelly Jo - I wish I had your problem!

[The Wifey]

(((MichelleLT)))

But do you think I'm crazy? Am I doing the DB thing all wrong by this? H hasn't exactly turned me away, but he is a bit tired and drained.

[MichelleLT]

No, I don't think you are crazy. I had a somewhat similar reaction, except my H was not cooperative - told me that he had to be faithful to OW and that unless we were going to have a threesome, he couldn't be with me.

I think so long as your H is receptive, it's a connection between the two of you. But I would recommend toning back on the waking him up in the middle of the night lol. A solid (even if short) night's sleep is a good thing.

[The Wifey]

You aren't kidding. I need one. I promised him a break tonight.

Your H was a pig to say that BTW. I would have asked him why it was important to be faithful to OW when it wasn't important to be faithful to you? I might have thrown a few well-aimed elbows too.

[MichelleLT]

Yes, he was. And that was precisely my question. His response, well the cheating has to stop somewhere and I'm not really a cheater. *rolls eyes* I refrained from saying anything particularly stupid because I am already far too good with the verbal comebacks. It was a 180 for me lol.

((((((Jeff)))))))) Sorry for hijacking

[mishka422]

SERIOUSLY!!!! Michelle how did you keep from beating him totally senseless for that one?

Kelly Jo - I did the same thing but it was my subconcious trying to hold onto my H with the one thing I knew he wanted more of. He was receptive but it didn't make any difference to him and I just ended up feeling like I was pathetic.

GOOD MORNING JEFFE!!!!!!!!!! Spanish flair to your name this morning after the Sangria and burrito talk last night.