FA, sorry your H still has his head up his butt. I am glad you decided to let go, and truly do, if this man wants to be in your life for better and for worse he will come back to you. I'm pretty ware of ow, I too had a long talk with bewildered/lied to ow, sobbing her heart out, asking me why he did this, why drag her along and lied to her. I took all she said with a grain of salt and made sure I didnt' believe all she said, for she loved him and she had a differetn version of the facts from stbx.
He may/may not be lying to her again and tell her how you are the crazy one who wont' let go of him even as he's told you it's over (she will believe this for she wants him). He can be saying all sorts of things, so beware if you talk to ow again, if she needs T then she can get an IC.
The man has lost his spine, keep your distance hon.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
