SmartCookie, I keep reading your story to get hope for mine. Again, much thanks.

From a DAMs perspective, when dealing with emotions like you were having about the hugs, just letting him know you're struggling with confusing emotions would go a long way. Thats not saying you didnt, or that in that instant you'd be able to. but even after the fact, it helps us to understand.

Quick (maybe) question for Forrest Gump, I cant find the thread you spoke about this, but you mentioned that when there is anger, nothing works? or nothing gets through? can you go into that a little? I'm dealing with an angry almost WAW, and am searching for a way to help take the edge off her anger.

Thanks again to you SmartCookie.

"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".