Getting Off the Rollercoaster!

[addie]

Hi everyone - thanks for your comments but it will be a long time before I'm in Piecing.
In spite of the beautiful things H has said to me, he continues to pursue OW and is now hanging out with 20 year olds (males and females). Every time I mention things that need to be addressed (restoring trust, looking at why all this happened, setting boundaries, etc), it pushes H to contact OW, former EA, possibly other females on dating sites.
He is telling me one thing and doing another. This is so not the man I've known for so many years. I'm feeling like the first time I found out about OW. I don't know how I can ever heal from one betrayal after another.