I did inquire about the $1200 and she said it was for the retainer for her L. She also said that her dad would be picking up the tab and reimbursing the $1200 into the account. Not necessarily what I wanted to hear but it is what it is.
As for the financials, I have been bouncing back and forth whether to do anything. There's not much except for cash flow and by moving it to my solo account, would basically tell her that I am gearing up for battle and that's what we both don't want.
I guess I am walking the tight rope, trying not to do anything that pushes her closer to the D while at the same time, protecting me and my kids.
Also, last night we agreed (I had little choice, be served or...) to opt for mediation rather than the lawyers. Not sure how good of a choice that was, but she says she is not vengeful and knows how little if any financial gain there is with this process.
Chris
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