I don't want a divorce or mediation. I want the OM to vanish and her to realize what goes around comes around, the connection we share, and how she could possibly be back. however this time, I will be the man she wanted me to be. looking for a "new marriage" with my wife. its all one sided as far as I know. I got the "i love you but i'm not in love with you" probably doesn't love me at all now.
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
