The rumors about you occasionally being "pissy" are greatly exaggerated!
Sounds like you are making a lot of good, positive changes. I am happy for you! And do travel....lots! It's fun.
So sorry to hear about your dad. I will keep him and your family in my prayers. We really do get hammered dealing with both the problems of our "young adult" children and our aging parents. Hang in there.
Spitty
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest. Mark Twain