H.G. texted me and the conversation started off fun, turned a bit explicit, then totally weird. The conversation turned, hmmm we'll say less fun, when I replied to one of his questions/requests with no. Not sure what to make of it right now. It's so hard over TM to know if someone is joking or serious.
Why are men so damn weird? Lol.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
I think tm is difficult to have a conversation in the first place. It takes me so long to type stuff because I have a regular phone and not a keypad. But you are right...it is hard to read someone. Usually when Cutie is kidding with me he puts a smilie or a lol after what he said. That helps.
Maybe HG isn't that great after all if he is turning a little weird. I don't know yet. Give it some time. I hate it when a flirty thing gets bizarre. I had that happen with this guy I was on IM with a month ago. Haven't talked to him at all since.
My Cutie remains a mystery to me. I am not sure if he is super busy with his job or found another woman to flirt with. He did TM me this morning a nice good morning message. But hasn't been in IM at all in over a week. When I talked to him Sunday, he said that he wanted to invite me over but he was beat and was going to sleep. He works a hard job. Do you think I am weary of men lying to me because my H had lied to me so much?
Sorry if I am taking over your thread....
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
I know that I am probably very sensitive / paranoid because of what happened with my H.
These wounds will be a while in healing I think.
And yes, TM is very difficult. But H.G. doesn't like talking on the phone. It was fine when we were around each other, but this whole long-distance thing is draining lol.
Don't worry about hijacking. It's always nice to get another perspective.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
It's great to hear you sounding so good! I am sorry to hear about your H, though, and how everything seems to be going to crap in his sitch....but then again, he's done this to himself.
TMs, IMs, and e-mails are definitely hard to interpret sometimes. With HG - hopefully it's just an itty-bitty snag. Forget about it. You're young - live in the moment....because the rest of us want to live in it with you, too!
(((((((Michelle)))))))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
Definitely living in it with you Michelle! I have no life of my own so I have to live vicariously through you. One of us needs to be having a happy little fling!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
((Michelle)) TM is a very hard thing to interpret because you can only read what is on the screen and there is no voice inflection or anything to go by. If he gets weird because you said no to something then so be it. HG is proof that there is life after H and that you are the total package/hottie we have been telling you you are for forever! Maybe he is just in a weird mood, I wouldn't read too much into it. Jeff says they just say stuff to fill the dead air anyway. LOL.
Still living vicariously through you though, so if not HG then HS (Hot Someone) K?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I am sorry to hear about your H, though, and how everything seems to be going to crap in his sitch....but then again, he's done this to himself.