Tom, there's something I'm seeing here. May be accurate, may not. But, I feel like this perspective may offer something beyond idle chit chat today.
I get the impression through all of the conversations above that she's trying to get back the relationship you had before. I'm going to go out on a limb and bet that's not what you want. Call me Captain Obvious, but, you DO deserve to be the prize. And it seems like she feels you should instead just fall back into the routine, in line with the fantasy in her head, or in her purse.
Sounds like she's not wanting a new relationship with you. Just more of the same. Sounds like you have a new relationship in the works that IS all of those good things.
