The thought of when the 4 of us have to sit at a table is unpalatable... probably because of my fear that I'll be helpless.
Note to self... anxiety... tell my lawyer, therapist and family friend tax lawyer about my concerns and go in with a strategy.
Gypsy, I'm going to offer something up here since I just experienced this..I like that you are forming a plan. One thing that will help JMHO...if you can do it without emotion then it will be better...mud gets slung in there..just prepare yourself for that..
It sucks a big one..
Just get yourself ready now if you can. YOU can make it easier on YOU. With a good mental attitude and a slippery Duck's Back