Hope4us struggle, part 6

[Hope4us]

Thanks Pup. Another good night at home. At one point, W slipped into a mini-mini funk, but quickly came out of it. Not sure what it was about, but didn't last long. She was quite talkative and engaging. Just a continuation of the last couple weeks.

S16 told me he talked to her again about moving and she replied "I like it here" and got a little pissy with him. I talked to him later in the evening and told him I thought it was a mistake to continue pushing the move for now. She's still in her "it's all about me" state of mind. I told him I wanted to give her a few more months to continue making the progress I feel we're making and to push her now would be a mistake. I asked him if 3 months of his life was worth the chance that our marriage could make it and he agreed it was. I just told him that things seem to be going well and if she continues the progress she seems to be that giving her some more time to complete WD and recommit to the marriage would be worth it in the end. I told him that if we're still living as "roommates" after our Oct trip that I would then tell her we're moving with or without her and he was ok with that.

Traded some funny TM's with W this morning re: our dog. He's 10 yrs old (which is old for a lab) and he's starting to show his age. Again, just more conversations etc between us that haven't been there for months and months.

Still haven't had the right opportunity to initiate the hugs/intimacy I'm planning, but I will soon.

Thanks for listening. Still more interviews today so I won't be able to comment on others sitch's, but doesn't mean I'm not thinking about ya all!