Whatever you choose is right when it comes to posting, and most things in life. Making a decision is about moving forward. With the momentum it's easier to adjust to your changing needs.
When you mentioned he was wearing the same clothes as yesterday, I imagined him all disheveled.. like Bill Murray in "Caddy Shack".. in fact that's how I 'see' him... going for the gopher.
Man.. the guy has to learn another ending line.
What do you want, Ms. Sun. Forget what the spouse is doing, the offer. What do you want, deep in your heart? No need to post it.. but think.