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13 years ago, she pursued me like a love struck teenager. She called me 3 or 4 times a day, sent me endless emails, left notes in the pockets of my coat and in the sun visor of my car. Surprised me with gifts. She showed up at my apartment door at all hours of the night just wanting to please me sexually. I gave in and fell in love against my better judgement. I had just divorced two years prior, was young, advancing in my career. I was happy and content. I already had a Son, I didn't desire anymore kids. There was no reason to marry anyone or fall in love.

I wish I could turn back the clock but take the wisdom I've acquired the hard way back with me.

16 yrs ago for me. Otherwise ditto. If I'd rip from every calendar the day I met the X.

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She has 3 Men boiling inside her emotional kettle. She was married to two of us and engaged to the other. Talk about your baggage!
How would your kids feel if your X returned then dumped you again?
What red flags do you see now as opposed as before?

Not to dis Shoe's description she is a smart lady but I wonder if the X is grabbing for the biggest prize and when you are not the big prize she goes for another?



"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work"
Steve Martin