well, they are in love! yuck! Whatever. I told H that I wouldnt sign the papers as long as he was having an affair. He said that he didnt consider it an affair, he thought of it as a relationship. I told him that he could think of it as whatever made his conscience feel better about what he was doing, but it didnt change the fact that it is an extra-marital affair and he is in a marriage, not a relationship!
I said that when he was ready to stop acting like a child I would talk to him. He asked why he was acting like a child, I said because you arent being honest with anyone about what your doing, not your friends, your parents, no one. He said my parents know, I said really, your dad knows? and he said his mom knows... Really, only mommy knows, because dad would have your a$$? Correct me if Im wrong, but that really reminds me of being 8 years old... Just wait till your father gets home.
I know, validate, validate, validate... Im ready to replace that with some other V's, Vomit, vomit, vomit! And I havent burned his papers yet, so that should count for some validation.
Maybe I set myself back, but I think that I made this right before he left, just needed to vent here. This Convo happened the same day that my sex drive convo did, just needed some time to set it into perspective.
Phew! vent over!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
