Just logged on and I'm sorry to see what happened. I think the others have covered it well. Only thing to add, is that I think that second call was to see where you are at. My W does it all the time. Think she was trying to gauge where your thoughts are because she is a bit worried about what she is doing. Good job on the second call.
I'll check in again tomorrow.
M 35 W 28 D 4
Bomb 4/28/08 Found out about PA 05/14/08 Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)